Doctoral School in the Social Sciences, Jagiellonian University, 34 Rynek Główny, 31-010, Kraków, Poland.
Institute of Psychology, Jagiellonian University, Kraków, Poland.
Arch Sex Behav. 2024 Aug;53(8):3285-3307. doi: 10.1007/s10508-024-02930-5. Epub 2024 Jul 1.
Compersion is a positive emotion experienced in relation to one's partner's relationship(s) with other partner(s). Experiencing it is highly desired in communities practicing consensual non-monogamy (CNM), especially polyamory. This article presents the results of a study on compersion on Polish CNM individuals. The main goal of the study was to adapt to the Polish-speaking population the COMPERSe (Classifying Our Metamour/Partner Emotional Response Scale; Flicker et al., 2021), the first standardized quantitative scale designed to measure compersion. The analyses were performed on data obtained from 211 individuals in CNM relationships and on a comparative group of 169 people in monogamous relationships. The results of the confirmatory factor analyses suggested that the three-factor model of the original COMPERSe version did not fit well, leading to further revisions that resulted in a 7-item, two-factor solution with excellent fit, excellent internal consistency, strong divergent and convergent validity, and excellent test-retest stability. The CNM individuals were found to have higher scores on compersion and cognitive empathy and were also less jealous than the monogamous participants. Furthermore, polyamorous individuals experienced more compersion and less aversion to partner's autonomy than people in open relationships. It was also revealed that compersion indirectly predicted relationship satisfaction by decreasing jealousy and that compersion was, in turn, predicted by cognitive empathy. However, when polyamorous and open relationships were analyzed separately, compersion predicted relationship satisfaction directly, but only in polyamorous relationships; meanwhile, in open relationships, satisfaction was directly predicted by cognitive empathy.
代偿是指一个人与伴侣的其他伴侣之间的关系中所体验到的一种积极情绪。在实践同意的非一夫一妻制(CNM)的社区中,特别是在多角恋关系中,人们非常渴望体验到代偿。本文介绍了一项关于波兰 CNM 个体代偿的研究结果。该研究的主要目的是将 COMPERSe(分类元配/伴侣情绪反应量表;Flicker 等人,2021 年)改编为波兰语,这是第一个旨在测量代偿的标准化定量量表。分析是基于来自 211 名处于 CNM 关系中的个体和 169 名处于一夫一妻制关系中的对照组的数据进行的。验证性因素分析的结果表明,原始 COMPERSe 版本的三因素模型拟合不佳,导致进一步修订,最终得到了一个 7 项、两因素的解决方案,具有极好的拟合度、极好的内部一致性、强大的发散和收敛有效性以及极好的重测稳定性。与一夫一妻制参与者相比,CNM 个体的代偿和认知同理心得分更高,嫉妒感也更低。此外,多角恋个体比开放关系中的个体体验到更多的代偿和对伴侣自主权的厌恶。研究还发现,代偿通过减少嫉妒间接预测关系满意度,而代偿反过来又由认知同理心预测。然而,当分别分析多角恋和开放关系时,代偿直接预测关系满意度,但仅在多角恋关系中;而在开放关系中,满意度直接由认知同理心预测。