[Intimate partner abuse of women: identification of victims in medical practice].

Intimate partner abuse is world-wide much more prevalent than often suspected. Three female patients consulted their family doctor with a variety of complaints. A 53-year-old woman, mother of three grown-up children, and divorced a year ago, sought help after four days, for a large infected wound of her right hand. A 32-year-old single mother of a 2-year-old girl asked the practice assistant for an iteration of a tranquillizer because of tension headache. A 36-year-old divorced mother of three sons was sent by her company doctor to ask for a referral to a psychiatrist because of chronic fatigue. All three women appeared to have been severely abused by their partners, recently or in the past, and were reluctant to disclose the abuse. Two women were regular visitors of doctor's offices with diverse unspecific complaints. The third woman was a victim of sexual abuse as a child and was severely depressed. Active asking about experiences of intimate partner abuse helped these women to disclose the real nature of their problem. Important effect is that abused women can accept help and experience support to improve their situation. Doctors should suspect intimate partner abuse more often in patients who are heavy medical consumers, depressed or victims of sexual abuse in childhood. Single and divorced mothers can hide a history of abuse. Doctors should ask clear and specific questions about relationships and listen without passing judgement so as to help women to disclose abuse.