Rhoades Galena Kline, Stanley Scott M, Markman Howard J
Department of Psychology, University of Denver, Denver, CO 80208, USA.
J Fam Psychol. 2006 Dec;20(4):553-60. doi: 10.1037/0893-3200.20.4.553.
The authors longitudinally examined couples' (N = 197) dedication (interpersonal commitment) levels on the basis of their premarital cohabitation history. Findings suggested that men who cohabited with their spouse before engagement were less dedicated than men who cohabited only after engagement or not at all before marriage. Furthermore, these husbands were less dedicated to their wives than their wives were to them. Hierarchical linear modeling showed that such asymmetries were apparent before marriage and through the early years of marriage. Relationship adjustment and religiousness were related to dedication but did not account for the findings. The authors suggest that couples considering cohabitation before engagement could benefit from discussions about commitment and expectations about marriage.
作者基于婚前同居史对197对夫妻的奉献精神(人际承诺)水平进行了纵向研究。研究结果表明,在订婚前与配偶同居的男性,其奉献精神不如那些仅在订婚后同居或婚前根本没有同居的男性。此外,这些丈夫对妻子的奉献不如妻子对他们的奉献。分层线性模型显示,这种不对称在婚前和婚后早期都很明显。关系调适和宗教信仰与奉献精神有关,但并不能解释这些研究结果。作者建议,考虑在订婚前同居的情侣可以从关于承诺和婚姻期望的讨论中受益。