Alsawalqa Rula Odeh
Department of Sociology, The University of Jordan, Amman, Jordan.
Front Psychol. 2021 Nov 30;12:719702. doi: 10.3389/fpsyg.2021.719702. eCollection 2021.
Gender stereotypes can influence electronic dating violence (EDV) because the victims' experiences with abusers depict crucial social mechanisms concerning relational dependency and unequal power relations between men and women, making it difficult for women to resist, report, or escape cyber abuse. In the Arab context, cyber abuse in romantic relationships has not been sufficiently examined. This study investigated female experiences of EDV through a qualitative exploratory descriptive approach. Participants experienced several short- and long-term negative psychological and emotional behavioral responses. Our findings validate that EDV heightened the probability of intimate partner violence definitively via psychological, emotional, verbal, and physical abuse. Their resistance strategies differed according to the extent and nature of the abuse. None of the participants sought help from family due to fear of being killed or forced out of university, and realizing that they would continue to experience multiple forms of abuse. Rather, they either sought help from female professors at the university or paid the abuser to be left alone. Further, they engaged in protective behaviors to block their abusive partner's access to them, consulted an Information Technology expert, and secretly requested assistance from the police. Preference for controlling and dominant roles, gaining monetary benefits, sexual exploitation, peer pressure, and revenge and anger due to abandonment were the leading motivations for abuse. Female students in their first year of university, those who lived in a disjointed family environment, or those who suffered abuse from their families were particularly susceptible to being victimized. Moreover, passwords shared with others or accounts left open on others' devices also enabled EDV. Hence, universities must conduct awareness sessions, for female students, on how to manage emotions and safe communication on social media and build healthy friendships and relationships. Curricula, seminars, workshops, and courses in the Jordanian educational sector should include programs and interventions that challenge perceived gender norms. These results have significant practical and clinical implications that help understand EDV in a poorly understood context and provide the groundwork for further research on the EDV problem in Jordan, addressing a lacuna in the literature on violence against Jordanian women.
性别刻板印象会影响电子约会暴力(EDV),因为受害者与施虐者的经历描绘了有关男女关系依赖和不平等权力关系的关键社会机制,这使得女性难以抵抗、举报或逃脱网络虐待。在阿拉伯地区,浪漫关系中的网络虐待尚未得到充分研究。本研究通过定性探索性描述方法调查了女性的电子约会暴力经历。参与者经历了几种短期和长期的负面心理和情绪行为反应。我们的研究结果证实,电子约会暴力通过心理、情感、言语和身体虐待确实增加了亲密伴侣暴力的可能性。她们的抵抗策略因虐待的程度和性质而异。由于担心被杀或被迫退学,并意识到她们将继续遭受多种形式的虐待,没有一名参与者向家人寻求帮助。相反,她们要么向大学的女教授寻求帮助,要么付钱给施虐者让其不再纠缠。此外,她们采取保护行为来阻止虐待伴侣接近自己,咨询信息技术专家,并秘密向警方求助。出于对控制和主导角色的偏好、获取金钱利益、性剥削、同伴压力以及因被抛弃而产生的报复和愤怒是虐待的主要动机。大学一年级的女学生、生活在不和谐家庭环境中的女学生或遭受家庭虐待的女学生特别容易成为受害者。此外,与他人共享的密码或在他人设备上未关闭的账户也会引发电子约会暴力。因此,大学必须为女学生举办关于如何在社交媒体上管理情绪和进行安全交流以及建立健康友谊和关系的提高认识活动。约旦教育部门的课程、研讨会、工作坊和课程应包括挑战既定性别规范的项目和干预措施。这些结果具有重大的实践和临床意义,有助于在一个了解甚少的背景下理解电子约会暴力,并为约旦电子约会暴力问题的进一步研究奠定基础,填补了关于约旦妇女暴力问题文献中的空白。