Oklahoma Center for Evolutionary Analysis, Oklahoma State University, 116 Psychology Building, Stillwater, OK 74078, USA.
Florida State University, 1107 W. Call Street, Tallahassee, FL 32306, USA.
Biol Psychol. 2022 Oct;174:108421. doi: 10.1016/j.biopsycho.2022.108421. Epub 2022 Aug 27.
One challenge many marital couples face is that they experience discrepant levels of sexual desire for one another. Such discrepancies are particularly likely to arise in mixed-sex relationships because, at least in long-term relationships, men tend to have higher levels of sexual desire for their partner than do women. But what underlies this sex difference? We used a dyadic study of 100 mixed-sex community-based newlywed spouses to investigate the role of biological, relational, cognitive, and emotional factors in explaining sex differences in dyadic sexual desire for a long-term partner. Consistent with predictions, wives on average reported lower daily sexual desire for their spouse than did husbands. Moreover, individual differences in men's and women's levels of circulating testosterone explained this sex difference whereas relational (marital satisfaction, commitment), cognitive (sex-role identification, stress, self-esteem), and emotional (mood, depressive symptoms) factors did not. These findings advance our knowledge of factors that influence dyadic sexual desire and may have practical implications for treating relationship distress in mixed-sex marriages.
许多婚姻伴侣面临的一个挑战是,他们彼此之间的性欲望水平存在差异。这种差异在异性恋关系中尤其可能出现,因为至少在长期关系中,男性对伴侣的性欲望往往高于女性。但是,这种性别差异的背后是什么原因呢?我们使用了一项对 100 对基于社区的新婚异性恋夫妇的对偶研究,调查了生物学、关系、认知和情感因素在解释长期伴侣对偶性欲望性别差异中的作用。与预测一致,妻子平均报告对配偶的每日性欲望低于丈夫。此外,男性和女性循环睾丸激素水平的个体差异解释了这种性别差异,而关系(婚姻满意度、承诺)、认知(性别角色认同、压力、自尊)和情感(情绪、抑郁症状)因素则没有。这些发现增进了我们对影响对偶性欲望的因素的了解,对于治疗异性恋婚姻中的关系困扰可能具有实际意义。