Gently caring: supporting the first few critical hours of life for the extremely low birth weight infant.

Caring for the extremely low birth weight infant in the first days of life is complex and challenging, yet rewarding. It is the experienced health care provider who will be best prepared to meet the needs of these fragile infants and their concerned/frightened parents. Understanding how to minimize stress and support body functions will enable us to better care for these infants in the first few days of life. We should strive to partner with parents, even in the resuscitative and stabilization phases of care, particularly when an infant may not survive. Nursing plays an essential role in providing this minute-to-minute support. It is not always what we do, but how we do it, that may matter most.