Sanger Michael
Valdosta State University, Georgia, USA.
Omega (Westport). 2009;59(1):69-89. doi: 10.2190/OM.59.1.e.
The continued bonds between bereaved individuals and the deceased are central to the process of mourning. One challenging form of continuing bond is that in which the mourner senses the actual presence of the deceased--i.e., seeing one's deceased husband at the kitchen counter. Some see this experience as a sign of pathology while others see it as a normal, healthy aspect of grief and mourning. Twenty-one social workers shared their experiences in addressing this issue with clients. Despite conceptualizing this experience in a variety of ways, they all grounded their interactions with clients around this issue on the fundamental social work value of respecting the client's dignity and experience. Their experiences and insights may be useful to other practitioners.
丧亲者与逝者之间持续存在的情感联系是哀悼过程的核心。持续情感联系的一种具有挑战性的形式是,哀悼者感觉到逝者确实存在——例如,在厨房柜台看到自己已故的丈夫。一些人将这种经历视为病态的表现,而另一些人则将其视为悲伤和哀悼中正常、健康的一面。21名社会工作者分享了他们与客户处理这一问题的经历。尽管他们以各种方式对这种经历进行了概念化,但他们围绕这个问题与客户的互动都基于尊重客户尊严和经历这一基本社会工作价值观。他们的经验和见解可能对其他从业者有用。