性可以缓冲亲密关系中依恋不安全感的负面影响。
Sex buffers intimates against the negative implications of attachment insecurity.
机构信息
Department of Psychology, University of Tennessee, Knoxville, TN 37996, USA.
出版信息
Pers Soc Psychol Bull. 2010 Apr;36(4):484-98. doi: 10.1177/0146167209352494. Epub 2009 Dec 23.
Abstract
Contextual models of relationships and recent theories of attachment system activation suggest that experiences that promote intimacy, such as sexual intercourse, may moderate the negative implications of attachment insecurity. In two independent studies, 207 couples reported their attachment insecurity, the frequency of their sexual intercourse over the past 30 days, their expectancies for their partner's availability, and their marital satisfaction, and in a 7-day diary they reported their daily sexual and relationship satisfaction and their expectancies for how satisfied they would be with their partners' availability the next day. Attachment avoidance was unrelated to marital satisfaction among spouses reporting more frequent sex, and attachment anxiety was unrelated to marital satisfaction among spouses reporting more daily sexual satisfaction. Both effects were mediated by expectancies for partner availability. These findings suggest that the effects of attachment insecurity are not immutable but vary according to the context of the relationship.
摘要
关系的情境模型和最近的依恋系统激活理论表明，促进亲密关系的体验，如性行为，可能会减轻依恋不安全感的负面影响。在两项独立的研究中，207 对夫妇报告了他们的依恋不安全感、过去 30 天内性行为的频率、对伴侣可用性的期望以及他们的婚姻满意度，并且在 7 天日记中，他们报告了他们每天的性和关系满意度以及对第二天与伴侣在一起的满意度的期望。对于报告更频繁性行为的配偶来说，依恋回避与婚姻满意度无关，对于报告更高日常性满意度的配偶来说，依恋焦虑与婚姻满意度无关。这两种效应都由对伴侣可用性的期望所介导。这些发现表明，依恋不安全感的影响不是不可改变的，而是根据关系的背景而变化。
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