Hay Elizabeth L, Fingerman Karen L, Lefkowitz Eva S
Department of Psychology, University of Florida, Gainesville, FL 32611-5911, USA.
Int J Aging Hum Dev. 2008;67(2):101-27. doi: 10.2190/AG.67.2.a.
This study examined the worries adults and their parents experience for one another. To date, relatively little research has considered the experience of worry in this relationship. A small number of studies, however, suggest worry is relatively common in this relationship (Boutain, 2001; Cicirelli, 1988; Parker, Call, Dunkle, & Vaitkus, 2002). Furthermore, worrying may be linked with mental and physical health (Beck et al., 2001; Hoyer, Becker, & Roth, 2001). A son or daughter (aged 22 to 49) and mother and father (aged 40 to 84) from 213 families participated. Adult children worried primarily about their parents' health. Interestingly, adult children with older parents were not more likely than adult children with younger parents to worry about their parents' health. In contrast, parents' worries were more diverse than those of adult children and included worries about their adult children's health, safety, relationships, and finances, among others. Furthermore, parents' worries were associated with their perceptions of relationship quality. Notably, parents who worried about their adult children's finances reported having poorer quality relationships with their adult children than parents who experienced other worries (e.g., about safety).
本研究考察了成年人及其父母对彼此的担忧。迄今为止,相对较少的研究关注这种关系中的担忧体验。然而,少数研究表明,担忧在这种关系中较为常见(布丹,2001;西奇雷利,1988;帕克、卡尔、邓克尔和瓦特库斯,2002)。此外,担忧可能与身心健康有关(贝克等人,2001;霍耶、贝克尔和罗斯,2001)。来自213个家庭的子女(年龄在22至49岁之间)及其父母(年龄在40至84岁之间)参与了研究。成年子女主要担心父母的健康。有趣的是,与父母年龄较小的成年子女相比,父母年龄较大的成年子女并不更担心父母的健康。相比之下,父母的担忧比成年子女的担忧更为多样,包括对成年子女的健康、安全、人际关系和财务状况等方面的担忧。此外,父母的担忧与他们对关系质量的认知有关。值得注意的是,与经历其他担忧(如对安全的担忧)的父母相比,担心成年子女财务状况的父母报告称与成年子女的关系质量较差。