Suess G J
Prax Kinderpsychol Kinderpsychiatr. 1990 Oct;39(8):278-83.
A child's relationship to both parents in divorcing families is discussed on the background of attachment research. Empirical data emphasize the effects of quality of attachment to both parents on child development, which arises out of the absence or the provision of a secure base. As a consequence the child develops internal working models of attachment figures and self, which is increasingly individually organized during the preschool years and shows considerable continuity throughout early and middle childhood. Adverse effects on attachment and its internal representations are expected to the degree to which through divorce the provision of a secure base is impaired. In psychological practice, parents have to be helped not only in balancing their adult conflicts but in providing a secure base for their children, without missusing them as alies or exposing them to pathological form of parentificaiton. All those are important issues of contextual therapy, which usefullness is especially discussed with respect to its key concept "multidirected partiality".
在依恋研究的背景下,探讨了离异家庭中孩子与父母双方的关系。实证数据强调了与父母双方的依恋质量对儿童发展的影响,这种影响源于安全基地的缺失或提供。因此,孩子会形成依恋对象和自我的内部工作模式,这种模式在学龄前阶段越来越个体化,并在整个童年早期和中期表现出相当的连续性。预计离婚会损害安全基地的提供,从而对依恋及其内部表征产生不利影响。在心理治疗实践中,不仅要帮助父母平衡他们的成人冲突,还要为孩子提供一个安全基地,而不是将孩子当作盟友利用或使他们遭受病态的父母化形式。所有这些都是情境治疗的重要问题,尤其是关于其关键概念“多向偏袒”的实用性进行了讨论。