Al-Zaben Faten, Al-Amoudi Samia M, El-deek Basem Salama, Koenig Harold G
Sheikh Mohammed Hussein Al-Amoudi Breast Cancer Center of Excellence and Faculty of Medicine, King Abdulaziz University, Jeddah, Saudia Arabia.
BMC Res Notes. 2014 Apr 23;7:261. doi: 10.1186/1756-0500-7-261.
We examine whether mothers with breast cancer told their children about the diagnosis, explore mothers' perceptions of the impact of doing so on the mother-child relationship, and assess perceptions of how this affected the children.
A convenience sample of 28 women with breast cancer ages 35 to 60 was interviewed using a 39-item close-ended questionnaire at the Al-Amoudi Breast Cancer Center of Excellence, King Abdulaziz University, Jeddah, Saudi Arabia. Inclusion criteria were having a diagnosis of breast cancer and having school-aged children (ages 5 to 16 years). Questions were asked concerning each child (n = 99).
The majority of women (75%) told their children about the diagnosis, and explained the treatment (61%). In most cases, telling the children had a positive effect on how the children treated their mothers (84%), on the maternal-child relationship (80%), and on the personality and behavior of the child (90%). The most common negative reaction by children was increased clinging behavior to the mother (15%). Despite the perceived positive impact on the mother-child relationship and on the child's overall behavior towards the mother, school performance suffered as a result (77%).
These preliminary results suggest that when a mother with breast cancer tells a child about the diagnosis and discusses it with them, this often results in an improvement in the maternal-child relationship. However, the knowing the mother's diagnosis may adversely affect the child's school performance, which will need to be anticipated and addressed with formal counseling if it persists.
我们研究了患有乳腺癌的母亲是否会告知孩子其诊断情况,探讨母亲对这样做对母子关系影响的看法,并评估对这如何影响孩子的认知。
在沙特吉达阿卜杜勒阿齐兹国王大学的阿勒穆迪卓越乳腺癌中心,使用一份包含39个封闭式问题的问卷对28名年龄在35至60岁之间患有乳腺癌的女性进行了便利抽样访谈。纳入标准为被诊断患有乳腺癌且有学龄儿童(5至16岁)。针对每个孩子(共99名)进行了相关问题的询问。
大多数女性(75%)告知了孩子诊断情况,并解释了治疗方案(61%)。在大多数情况下,告知孩子对孩子对待母亲的方式(84%)、母子关系(80%)以及孩子的性格和行为(90%)产生了积极影响。孩子最常见的负面反应是对母亲的依恋行为增加(15%)。尽管认为对母子关系和孩子对母亲的总体行为有积极影响,但结果是孩子的学业成绩受到了影响(77%)。
这些初步结果表明,当患有乳腺癌的母亲告知孩子诊断情况并与他们讨论时,这通常会改善母子关系。然而,知晓母亲的诊断可能会对孩子的学业成绩产生不利影响,如果这种情况持续存在,需要通过正式咨询来预见并解决。