Stranger Jill
J Lesbian Stud. 2004;8(3-4):13-9. doi: 10.1300/J155v08n03_03.
Abstract The author reflects on her two lesbian ex-lovers and what they have in common: the manner in which they left, each very suddenly, each with a coworker known for only a few months, and both on the 10th anniversary. After a year of grief work and painful soul-searching following the last of these two breakups, the author gained a new level of personal understanding and a balanced lover relationship. That is, despite occasional fears, she has taken the leap of faith and fallen in love again. They may decide to skip their 10th anniversary!
摘要 作者反思了她的两位女同性恋前女友以及她们的共同之处：她们离开的方式，都是非常突然地离开，且各自与共事仅几个月的同事在一起，而且都是在结婚十周年纪念日那天。在这两次分手中的最后一次分手后，经过一年的悲伤排解和痛苦的自我反省，作者获得了新的个人认知水平以及一段平衡的恋爱关系。也就是说，尽管偶尔会有恐惧，但她还是毅然决然地再次坠入爱河。她们或许会决定跳过结婚十周年纪念日！
