Cho Y S
Taehan Kanho. 1989 Aug 31;28(3):83-92.
This study analysed marital conflicts, related factors, and adjustments to those conflicts described by urban Korean women. The purpose was to discover directions for resolutions that would enhance the helpfulness of volunteers or professionals working with women in counselling settings. The investigator interviewed 20 married women, all mothers and housewives living in Seoul, attending marriage encounter programs and the Lifeline telephone counselling service. An interview schedule using six open-ended questions guided the data collection which took place between May 31 and December 29, 1988. Content analysis of the data revealed, in order of reported frequency, the following areas of conflict: relationships between husband wife, relationships with children, relationships between the wife and her mother-in-Law, unsatisfied sexual needs, the husband's extra marital relationships, lack of self actualization and financial matters. Analysis of the data suggested the following factors were related to the conflicts: reasons for marriage, traditional views about marriage and divorce including to accept a marriage arranged by the parents, the husband's traditional attitude toward the sex role of the wife, the husband's patriarchal authoritarianism, and his attitude toward the wife's employment outside the home. The women thought these conflicts severely affected their relationships within the family, particularly with their children. Literature suggests links with such poor parent-child-family relationships and adolescent or young people's social problems. Volunteers or professionals working with married women in counselling situations need to be conscious of the possibility of these conflicts during assessment, and direct their guidance toward such conflict resolution. The researcher makes several suggestions which include the need for the husband to give emotional support to his wife, to recognize the worth of housework, to share the work of the home, to find ways to enhance the wife's self-actualization and to ease dreary housework routines by providing modern appliances.
本研究分析了韩国城市女性所描述的婚姻冲突、相关因素以及对这些冲突的调适。目的是找出解决方法的方向，以提高在咨询环境中与女性合作的志愿者或专业人员的帮助效果。研究者采访了20位已婚女性，她们均为居住在首尔的母亲兼家庭主妇，参加了婚姻交流项目和生命线电话咨询服务。一份使用六个开放式问题的访谈提纲指导了1988年5月31日至12月29日期间的数据收集。对数据的内容分析按报告频率顺序揭示了以下冲突领域：夫妻关系、与子女的关系、妻子与婆婆的关系、未满足的性需求、丈夫的婚外情、缺乏自我实现以及财务问题。对数据的分析表明以下因素与冲突有关：结婚原因、关于婚姻和离婚的传统观念，包括接受父母包办的婚姻、丈夫对妻子性别角色的传统态度、丈夫的父权专制主义以及他对妻子外出工作的态度。这些女性认为这些冲突严重影响了她们在家庭中的关系，尤其是与子女的关系。文献表明这种不良的亲子家庭关系与青少年或年轻人的社会问题之间存在联系。在咨询情境中与已婚女性合作的志愿者或专业人员在评估过程中需要意识到这些冲突的可能性，并将指导方向指向解决此类冲突。研究者提出了几点建议，包括丈夫需要给予妻子情感支持、认识到家务劳动的价值、分担家务、找到提高妻子自我实现的方法以及通过提供现代电器来缓解枯燥的家务日常。
