Wong Paul W C, Lau Kenny C T, Liu Lucia L, Yuen Gloria S N, Wing-Lok Poon
1 Department of Social Work and Social Administration, The University of Hong Kong, Hong Kong.
2 Chinese Australian Services Society, Sydney, Australia.
Omega (Westport). 2017 Jun;75(2):103-123. doi: 10.1177/0030222815612603. Epub 2015 Oct 25.
It is a worldwide trend that more households are having pets or companion animals. Hence, there has been an increasing number of animal lovers experience companion animal loss bereavement. This form of bereavement has not been explored in Chinese societies. We conducted a qualitative study using in-depth interviews with 31 animal lovers and recruited through convenience and snowball sampling in Hong Kong. Companion animal loss bereavement appears to share similar features to other forms of bereavement but also has its unique features. The intensity of grief seemed to be affected by factors like the strength of the human-animal bond, lack of empathy from closed ones, being married without children, and euthanasia decision. Although the bereavement was distressful for many of our participants, many of them gradually achieved personal growth from their loss experience. We have identified seven common themes from the interview data and through self-reliance, social-supported, or professional-supported coping behaviors, people bereaved by animal loss can achieve growth from their experience. This study shows that postbereavement growth is possible from pet loss bereavement when appropriate coping strategies are adopted by the bereaved but some professional help may be needed.
越来越多的家庭饲养宠物或伴侣动物,这已成为一种全球趋势。因此,经历伴侣动物丧失之痛的动物爱好者越来越多。在中国社会,这种丧亲之痛尚未得到探讨。我们在香港通过便利抽样和滚雪球抽样,对31名动物爱好者进行了深入访谈,开展了一项定性研究。伴侣动物丧失之痛似乎与其他形式的丧亲之痛有相似之处,但也有其独特之处。悲伤的强度似乎受到诸如人与动物情感纽带的强度、亲人缺乏同理心、已婚无子女以及安乐死决定等因素的影响。尽管丧亲之痛让我们的许多参与者感到痛苦,但他们中的许多人从失去经历中逐渐实现了个人成长。我们从访谈数据中确定了七个共同主题,通过自力更生、社会支持或专业支持的应对行为,经历动物丧失之痛的人可以从他们的经历中实现成长。这项研究表明,当丧亲者采取适当的应对策略时,宠物丧失之痛后有可能实现成长,但可能需要一些专业帮助。