Goldberg Abbie E, Manley Melissa H, Ellawala Themal, Ross Lori E
Department of Psychology, Clark University, 950 Main Street, Worcester MA 01610.
Dalla Lana School of Public Health, Health Sciences Building 155 College Street, 6th Floor Toronto, ON M5T 3M7.
Psychol Sex Orientat Gend Divers. 2019 Mar;6(1):75-87. doi: 10.1037/sgd0000307. Epub 2018 Oct 15.
Women who (a) hold plurisexual identities (e.g., bisexual, pansexual) and (b) are male-partnered are understudied. Of interest is how these women construct their sexual identities across the transition to parenthood-a period associated with intensified heteronormative expectations, and changes in women's roles and identities. This longitudinal study of 28 plurisexual, male-partnered women examined women's sexual identity construction across the first year of parenthood, using four waves of data. Most women were White, bisexual-identified, and first-time parents. The majority of women described decreases in the salience or centrality of their sexuality more generally. Almost all women continued to hold plurisexual identities across the first year of parenthood, although many described these as private identities amidst public assumptions of heterosexuality. Some, though, sought to maintain a connection to their plurisexual identities through sexual identity disclosure, same-gender fantasies, and involvement in consensual nonmonogamy. Although only one woman articulated a shift in sexual identity label (from bicurious to heterosexual), others increasingly distanced themselves from their same-gender behaviors and desires. Our findings illustrate how women engage in an active process of sexual identity construction amidst heteronormative pressures, and how they navigate tensions amongst their partnership and parenthood statuses and their private identities and past behaviors.
(a)具有多元性取向身份(如双性恋、泛性恋)且(b)与男性伴侣在一起的女性尚未得到充分研究。有趣的是,这些女性在向为人父母的转变过程中如何构建自己的性取向身份,这一时期伴随着强化的异性恋规范期望,以及女性角色和身份的变化。这项对28名具有多元性取向、与男性伴侣在一起的女性的纵向研究,利用四轮数据,考察了女性在为人父母的第一年中的性取向身份构建。大多数女性是白人,自我认同为双性恋,且是初为人母。大多数女性普遍表示自己性取向的显著性或核心地位有所下降。几乎所有女性在为人父母的第一年里都继续保持多元性取向身份,尽管许多人表示在公众对异性恋的假设中,这些身份是私密的。不过,一些女性试图通过公开性取向身份、产生同性幻想以及参与双方自愿的非一夫一妻制来维持与自己多元性取向身份的联系。尽管只有一名女性明确表示性取向身份标签发生了转变(从双性好奇转变为异性恋),但其他女性越来越远离自己的同性行为和欲望。我们的研究结果表明了女性在异性恋规范压力下如何积极构建性取向身份,以及她们如何在伴侣关系、为人父母的身份以及私密身份和过去行为之间的紧张关系中找到平衡。