Department of Psychology, University of New Brunswick.
J Sex Res. 2020 May;57(4):508-521. doi: 10.1080/00224499.2019.1610150. Epub 2019 May 20.
Successful mate poaching is a form of infidelity that occurs when one partner knowingly attracts the mate of another with the intention of starting a sexual and/or romantic relationship with this individual. Relationships formed from poaching tend to be of lower quality than their non-poached counterparts. A history of poaching might reflect a sociosexuality that propels seeking new partnerships without regard for exclusivity. It is unknown whether serial poaching for relationship formation is linked to more permissive sociosexual orientation. Adults ( = 653; aged 25-40; 57% women) in a romantic relationship completed online surveys assessing mate poaching, poaching history, sociosexuality, and relationship quality (commitment, satisfaction, trust, jealousy). Those in a poached relationship at the time of the study had a more extensive history of poached relationships and a more permissive sociosexuality. Participants who reported a more extensive history of mate poaching reported poorer quality relationships. The link between poaching history and relationship quality was partially accounted for by sociosexuality. This research adds to our understanding of difficulties that may be associated with the relationships of individuals who use poaching as a relationship initiation strategy, and the challenges that permissive sociosexuality may present for maintaining long-term relationships.
成功的伴侣挖角是一种不忠行为,当一方故意吸引另一方的伴侣,意图与这个人开始性关系和/或浪漫关系时,就会发生这种行为。从挖角中形成的关系往往比非挖角的关系质量低。挖角的历史可能反映了一种社会性别观念,即推动寻求新的伴侣关系,而不考虑排他性。目前还不清楚是否有连续挖角来建立关系与更宽容的社会性别取向有关。处于恋爱关系中的成年人(=653;年龄 25-40 岁;57%为女性)完成了在线调查,评估了伴侣挖角、挖角历史、社会性别观念和关系质量(承诺、满意度、信任、嫉妒)。在研究时处于挖角关系中的人有更多的挖角关系历史和更宽容的社会性别观念。报告有更多伴侣挖角历史的参与者报告的关系质量较差。挖角历史和关系质量之间的联系部分归因于社会性别观念。这项研究增加了我们对那些将挖角作为关系建立策略的人可能面临的关系困难的理解,以及宽容的社会性别观念可能给维持长期关系带来的挑战。