Department of Psychology, University of Toronto, Toronto, ON M5S 3G3, Canada
Department of Psychology, University of Toronto, Toronto, ON M5S 3G3, Canada.
Proc Natl Acad Sci U S A. 2019 Jun 25;116(26):12793-12797. doi: 10.1073/pnas.1902937116. Epub 2019 Jun 10.
Do people have a "type" when it comes to their romantic partners' personalities? In the present research, we used data from a 9-y longitudinal study in Germany and examined the similarity between an individual's ex- and current partners using the partners' self-reported personality profiles. Based on the social accuracy model, our analyses distinguished similarity between partners that was attributable to similarity to an average person (normative similarity) and resemblance to the target participant himself/herself (self-partner similarity) to more precisely examine similarity from partner to partner (distinctive similarity). The results revealed a significant degree of distinctive partner similarity, suggesting that there may indeed be a unique type of person each individual ends up with. We also found that distinctive partner similarity was weaker for people high in extraversion or openness to experience, suggesting that these individuals may be less likely to be in a relationship with someone similar to their ex-partner (although the individual difference effects were not mirrored in an alternative analytic approach). These findings provide evidence for stability in distinctive partner personality and have important implications for predicting future partnering behaviors and actions in romantic relationships.
当涉及到恋爱伴侣的个性时,人们是否有“类型”?在本研究中,我们使用了来自德国的 9 年纵向研究的数据,并用伴侣自我报告的个性档案来检验个体的前任和现任伴侣之间的相似性。基于社会准确性模型,我们的分析区分了归因于与一般人相似的伴侣之间的相似性(规范性相似性)和与目标参与者自身相似的相似性(自我-伴侣相似性),以更精确地检查伴侣之间的相似性(独特的相似性)。结果显示出显著程度的独特伴侣相似性,表明每个人最终可能确实有一个独特的类型。我们还发现,外向或对经验开放程度较高的人之间的独特伴侣相似性较弱,这表明这些人可能不太可能与与他们的前任伴侣相似的人建立关系(尽管个体差异效应在另一种分析方法中并未得到反映)。这些发现为独特伴侣个性的稳定性提供了证据,并对预测浪漫关系中的未来伴侣行为和行动具有重要意义。