Department of Human, Social and Health Sciences, University of Cassino and Southern Lazio, 03043 Cassino, Italy.
Faculty of Medicine and Psychology, Sapienza University of Rome, 00178 Rome, Italy.
Int J Environ Res Public Health. 2021 May 14;18(10):5259. doi: 10.3390/ijerph18105259.
Children and adolescents are too often victims of sexual abuse and harassment. According to the World Health Organization (WHO), approximately 150 million girls and 73 million children <18 have been victims of violence and sexual exploitation during their childhood. Data show that females are more likely to be a victim of abuse and violence than males (20% vs. 5-10%). Such abuses lead to long-term psychophysical and relational consequences and victims are often afraid of asking for support from both parents and professionals. This case report shows the story of a 17-year-old adolescent, Sara, involved by her mother in a strategic counseling process, to solve BDSM-type sexual addiction (slavery and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism), self-aggressive behavior, and alcohol abuse issues. The strategic counseling process is structured in 15 sessions and was based on problem-solving techniques and corrective behavioral strategies. During the sessions, it emerged that Sara had been a victim of sexual violence at the age of 6 and that she had never talked about the rape with anyone. At the age of 12, she began to experience social anxiety and shame, feelings that led her to use alcohol and seek violent sexual partners and bondage relationships. During the counseling sessions, Sara elaborated on her trauma, becoming more aware of her resources and her desires, and she learned to manage the sense of guilt and shame associated with the violence suffered, through alternative strategies. At the end of the process, Sara normalized her relationship with sex and alcohol, regaining her identity.
儿童和青少年经常成为性虐待和性骚扰的受害者。根据世界卫生组织(WHO)的数据,大约有 1.5 亿女孩和 7300 万<18 岁的儿童在童年时期遭受过暴力和性剥削。数据显示,女性比男性更容易成为虐待和暴力的受害者(20%比 5-10%)。这些虐待会导致长期的身心和人际关系后果,受害者往往害怕向父母和专业人士寻求支持。本案例报告展示了一个 17 岁的青少年 Sara 的故事,她的母亲将她带入一个战略咨询过程中,以解决 BDSM 类型的性成瘾(奴役和纪律、支配和服从、施虐和受虐)、自我攻击行为和酗酒问题。战略咨询过程分为 15 个阶段,基于解决问题的技术和纠正行为策略。在咨询过程中,Sara 透露她在 6 岁时曾遭受过性暴力,并且从未与任何人谈论过强奸事件。12 岁时,她开始出现社交焦虑和羞耻感,这些感受导致她酗酒、寻求暴力性伴侣和捆绑关系。在咨询过程中,Sara 详细讲述了她的创伤经历,对自己的资源和欲望有了更清晰的认识,并学会通过替代策略来应对与所遭受的暴力相关的内疚和羞耻感。在治疗过程结束时,Sara 恢复了正常的性生活和饮酒习惯,重新找回了自我。