School of Psychology, University of Queensland, 4072, St Lucia, QLD, Australia.
School of Business, University of Queensland, St Lucia, Australia.
Hum Nat. 2023 Mar;34(1):46-63. doi: 10.1007/s12110-023-09439-1. Epub 2023 Feb 17.
Humans have a complex and dynamic mating system, and there is evidence that our modern sexual preferences stem from evolutionary pressures. In the current paper we explore male use of a dual mating strategy: simultaneously pursuing both a long-term relationship (pair-bonding) as well as short-term, extra-pair copulations (variety-seeking). The primary constraint on such sexual pursuits is partner preferences, which can limit male behavior and hence cloud inferences about male preferences. The aim of this study was to investigate heterosexual male mating preferences when largely unconstrained by female partner preferences. In service of this goal, female full-service sex workers (N = 6) were surveyed on the traits and behaviors of their male clients (N = 516) and iterative cluster analysis was used to identify male mating typologies. Two clusters emerged: clients seeking a pair-bonding experience and clients seeking a variety experience. Results also suggested that romantically committed men were more likely to seek a variety experience than a relationship experience. We conclude that men desire both pair-bonding and sexual variety, and that their preference for one might be predicted by fulfilment of the other. These findings have implications for relationships, providing insight into motivations for male infidelity.
人类的交配系统非常复杂且充满活力,有证据表明,我们现代的性偏好源自进化压力。在目前的研究中,我们探讨了男性采用双重交配策略的情况:同时追求长期的伴侣关系(配对)和短期的、非伴侣间的交配(寻求多样性)。这种性追求的主要限制因素是伴侣偏好,它可以限制男性的行为,从而模糊了对男性偏好的推断。本研究的目的是在很大程度上不受女性伴侣偏好限制的情况下,研究异性恋男性的交配偏好。为了实现这一目标,我们对女性全职性工作者(N=6)进行了调查,了解她们的男性客户(N=516)的特征和行为,并使用迭代聚类分析来识别男性的交配类型。结果出现了两个聚类:寻求伴侣关系体验的客户和寻求多样性体验的客户。研究结果还表明,有浪漫承诺的男性更有可能寻求多样性体验,而不是关系体验。我们得出结论,男性既渴望伴侣关系,也渴望性多样性,他们对其中一种的偏好可以通过另一种的满足来预测。这些发现对人际关系具有重要意义,为男性出轨的动机提供了深入了解。