Tavares Inês M, Brandelli Yvonne N, Dawson Samantha J, Impett Emily, Debrot Anik, Rosen Natalie O
Dalhousie University, Canada.
University of British Columbia, Canada.
J Soc Pers Relat. 2024 Aug;41(8):2070-2094. doi: 10.1177/02654075241232704. Epub 2024 Feb 12.
Touch is a universal nonverbal action often used by romantic partners to demonstrate affection and care for each other. Attitudes toward touch might be particularly relevant across periods of relational strain-such as the transition to parenthood-when couples face many novel stressors and shifting priorities which can interfere with their sexual and affectionate experiences. New parent couples ( = 203) completed self-report measures online across six time-points (two prenatal). We tested whether couples' attitudes toward touch (touch aversion, touch for affection, touch for emotion regulation) at baseline (20 weeks mid-pregnancy) predicted their frequency of sexual and affectionate behaviors from mid-pregnancy through 12-month postpartum. Both partners' more positive attitudes toward touch (i.e., for affection and emotion regulation) and lower aversive attitudes toward touch, as measured in mid-pregnancy, predicted couples' higher frequency and variety of sexual and affectionate behaviors at 3-month postpartum. Touch attitudes generally did not predict the degree of change in the frequency or variety of sexual or affectionate behaviors, with one exception: non-birthing parents' more positive attitudes toward touch for emotion regulation in mid-pregnancy predicted a slower decline in couples' affectionate behaviors across pregnancy. Findings underscore a link between new parents' attitudes toward touch and their subsequent sexual and affectionate behaviors, particularly in the early postpartum period. New parents need to navigate novel sexual changes and a nonverbal strategy such as touch might be useful to promote intimacy and care.
触摸是一种普遍的非语言行为,浪漫伴侣经常用它来表达对彼此的喜爱和关心。在关系紧张的时期,比如向为人父母的转变期,夫妻面临许多新的压力源和不断变化的优先事项,这些可能会干扰他们的性体验和亲密体验,此时对触摸的态度可能就格外重要。初为父母的夫妻(n = 203)在六个时间点(两个孕期)在线完成了自我报告测量。我们测试了夫妻在基线期(孕中期20周)对触摸的态度(触摸厌恶、出于喜爱的触摸、出于情绪调节的触摸)是否能预测他们从孕中期到产后12个月的性和亲密行为频率。在孕中期测量时,夫妻双方对触摸更积极的态度(即出于喜爱和情绪调节)以及对触摸较低的厌恶态度,预测了产后3个月时夫妻更高频率和更多样化的性和亲密行为。触摸态度一般不能预测性或亲密行为频率或多样性的变化程度,但有一个例外:非生育方父母在孕中期对出于情绪调节的触摸更积极的态度,预测了孕期夫妻亲密行为下降速度较慢。研究结果强调了初为父母者对触摸的态度与他们随后的性和亲密行为之间的联系,尤其是在产后早期。初为父母者需要应对新的性变化,像触摸这样的非语言策略可能有助于促进亲密感和关怀。