Fernandez Calvin C, Gao Nina, Wilson Michael J, Goodyear Trevor, Seidler Zac E, Sharp Paul, Rice Simon M, Krusi Andrea, Gilbert Mark, Oliffe John L
School of Population and Public Health, University of British Columbia, Vancouver, BC, Canada.
School of Nursing, University of British Columbia, Vancouver, BC, Canada.
Cult Health Sex. 2025 Jun;27(6):733-750. doi: 10.1080/13691058.2024.2399288. Epub 2024 Sep 17.
Emotional intimacy is key to intimate partner relationship quality and satisfaction. For sexual minority men, queer and feminist theorists consistently link emotional intimacy to diverse sexual practices and partnership dynamics formulated within the relationship. This Photovoice study adds to those insights by drawing on individual photovoice interviews with 16 sexual minority men to describe participant's experiences of, and strategies for emotional intimacy in their intimate relationships. Analysis revealed three distinct yet entwined themes: (i) embracing vulnerabilities to drive self-acceptance; (ii) building relationality with partners; and (iii) securing connections with family, friends and community. By embracing vulnerabilities to drive self-acceptance, participants spoke to embodied courage and autonomy as key components for addressing wide-ranging emotional intimacy challenges in their relationships. In theme two, building relationality with partners, participants described how empathy, trust and reciprocity underpinned collaborative work to foster emotional intimacy. Lastly, in securing connections with family, friends and community, acceptance and inclusion were key to participants' sense of belonging and legitimacy which aided their emotional intimacy with partners. The findings provide guidance for tailored programmatic efforts to assist sexual minority men build intimate relationships.
情感亲密是亲密伴侣关系质量和满意度的关键。对于性少数群体男性而言,酷儿理论家和女权主义理论家一直将情感亲密与在关系中形成的多样化性行为及伴侣关系动态联系起来。这项摄影声音研究通过对16名性少数群体男性进行个人摄影声音访谈,来描述参与者在亲密关系中情感亲密的经历和策略,从而丰富了这些见解。分析揭示了三个不同但相互交织的主题:(i)接纳脆弱以推动自我接纳;(ii)与伴侣建立关系;(iii)与家人、朋友和社区建立联系。通过接纳脆弱以推动自我接纳,参与者谈到了体现出的勇气和自主性,认为这是应对关系中广泛情感亲密挑战的关键要素。在第二个主题“与伴侣建立关系”中,参与者描述了同理心、信任和互惠如何支撑促进情感亲密的合作。最后,在与家人、朋友和社区建立联系方面,接纳和包容是参与者归属感和合法性的关键,这有助于他们与伴侣建立情感亲密。这些发现为量身定制的项目努力提供了指导,以帮助性少数群体男性建立亲密关系。