Shi Xin, Impett Emily A, Zheng Yong
Key Laboratory of Cognition and Personality (Ministry of Education), Southwest University.
Department of Psychology, University of Toronto Mississauga.
J Sex Res. 2025 Oct;62(8):1514-1531. doi: 10.1080/00224499.2024.2445059. Epub 2025 Jan 7.
High-quality sexual relationships significantly contribute to the development and maintenance of romantic relationships, with effective sexual communication playing a crucial role. In particular, how partners communicate and feel about sexual consent is essential for sexual and relationship well-being. There is limited research on sexual consent within established romantic relationships, and existing findings are mixed. Our research addresses this gap through three studies using cross-sectional, dyadic, and dyadic daily diary methods conducted in China. In Study 1 ( = 392 adult individuals in romantic relationships), individuals who felt higher internal consent and used more explicit-verbal cues to consent to sex during their most recent sexual encounter experienced greater sexual and relationship satisfaction. These effects extended to individuals' partners in Study 2 ( = 235 mixed-gender adult couples). Internal and explicit-verbal consent were associated with higher sexual satisfaction for both partners, while implicit-nonverbal consent was only associated with an individual's own sexual satisfaction. Study 3 ( = 103 mixed-gender adult couples), a 21-day dyadic diary study, confirmed that daily internal and explicit-verbal consent were linked to both partners' daily sexual and relationship satisfaction. However, daily passive consent was associated with lower daily sexual satisfaction for both partners and was associated with increased daily sexual distress for the person who provided passive consent. Our research highlights the critical role of internal consent and explicit-verbal consent communication for promoting sexual and relationship well-being.
高质量的性关系对浪漫关系的发展和维持有显著贡献,有效的性沟通起着至关重要的作用。特别是,伴侣如何就性同意进行沟通以及感受对于性健康和关系健康至关重要。在已确立的浪漫关系中,关于性同意的研究有限,现有研究结果不一。我们的研究通过在中国进行的三项研究填补了这一空白,这三项研究采用了横断面研究、二元研究和二元日记研究方法。在研究1(392名处于浪漫关系中的成年人)中,在最近一次性接触中感到更高的内在同意并使用更多明确的语言线索来同意性行为的个体,体验到了更高的性满意度和关系满意度。这些影响在研究2(235对不同性别的成年情侣)中延伸到了个体的伴侣。内在同意和明确的语言同意与双方更高的性满意度相关,而隐含的非语言同意仅与个体自身的性满意度相关。研究3(103对不同性别的成年情侣),一项为期21天的二元日记研究,证实了每天的内在同意和明确的语言同意与双方的日常性满意度和关系满意度相关。然而,每天的被动同意与双方较低的日常性满意度相关,并且与提供被动同意的人的日常性困扰增加相关。我们的研究强调了内在同意和明确的语言同意沟通对于促进性健康和关系健康的关键作用。