Novick J, Novick K K
New York Freudian Society, USA.
J Am Psychoanal Assoc. 2000 Winter;48(1):189-218. doi: 10.1177/00030651000480011201.
Volumes have been written about the patient's love for the therapist, but there has been relatively little discussion of the therapist's love for the patient. In an attempt to create a theoretical and technical space for discussing the appropriateness and role of love in the therapeutic relationship, a revised concept of the therapeutic alliance is applied to provide technical guidelines and understanding of two kinds of love between patient and therapist, corresponding to two systems of self-esteem regulation: an open, reality-oriented system and a closed, sadomasochistic system organized according to omnipotent beliefs. Examples of the role of love through the phases of treatment illustrate the interrelationship of love and the accomplishment of therapeutic alliance tasks.
关于患者对治疗师的爱，已经有大量著述，但对于治疗师对患者的爱，相关讨论相对较少。为了创造一个理论和技术空间来探讨爱在治疗关系中的适当性和作用，我们应用了治疗联盟的一个修订概念，以提供技术指导方针，并理解患者与治疗师之间的两种爱，这两种爱分别对应两种自尊调节系统：一种是开放的、面向现实的系统，另一种是根据全能信念组织起来的封闭的、施虐受虐的系统。通过治疗各阶段中爱的作用的例子，说明了爱与治疗联盟任务完成之间的相互关系。
