Finkel E J, Campbell W K
Department of Psychology, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, 27599, USA.
J Pers Soc Psychol. 2001 Aug;81(2):263-77. doi: 10.1037//0022-3514.81.2.263.
Accommodation refers to the willingness, when a partner has engaged in a potentially destructive behavior, to (a) inhibit impulses toward destructive responding and (b) instead respond constructively. A pilot study and 3 additional studies examined the hypothesis that self-control promotes individuals' ability to accommodate in response to a romantic partner's potentially destructive behavior. Dispositional self-control was positively associated with accommodative tendencies in all 4 investigations. In addition, Study 1 (a retrospective study) and Study 2 (a laboratory experiment) revealed that "in-the-moment" self-regulatory strength depletion decreased the likelihood that an individual would accommodate. Finally, Study 3 demonstrated that self-control exerted a significant effect on accommodation even after the authors included commitment to the relationship in the model. Implications for relationship functioning are discussed.
顺应是指当伴侣做出潜在的破坏性行为时，愿意（a）抑制破坏性反应的冲动，（b）转而做出建设性的反应。一项初步研究和另外三项研究检验了以下假设：自我控制能促进个体在面对浪漫伴侣的潜在破坏性行为时做出顺应的能力。在所有四项调查中，特质性自我控制与顺应倾向呈正相关。此外，研究1（一项回顾性研究）和研究2（一项实验室实验）表明，“当下”的自我调节力量耗竭降低了个体做出顺应的可能性。最后，研究3表明，即使在模型中纳入对关系的承诺后，自我控制对顺应仍有显著影响。文中还讨论了对关系功能的影响。
