Metz Michael E, Epstein Norman
Meta Associates, St. Paul, Minnesota, USA.
J Sex Marital Ther. 2002 Mar-Apr;28(2):139-64. doi: 10.1080/00926230252851889.
Relationship conflict has long been thought to cause, maintain, and influence the therapeutic outcome of sexual problems in the absence of a physical cause. The results of conflict can influence partners' relationship satisfaction, and relationship satisfaction can influence sexual satisfaction. General relationship deficiencies, such as unresolved conflict, undermine the mutual acceptance that is important to healthy sexual functioning. The purpose of this article is to summarize some of the basic empirical findings of studies of conflict patterns in relationships and their role in sex dysfunction and to suggest a model for assessing relationship conflict as a feature of sexual dysfunction. Results from several studies indicate that couples with sexual problems may have conflict-management issues and employ distinct conflict-resolution styles compared to satisfied couples. Dysfunctional conflict resolution may be a cause or result of some sexual problems, whereas constructive interaction concerning conflict can add to emotional and sexual intimacy in a couple's relationship. These patterns warrant systematic attention in assessment and intervention in sex therapy.
长期以来,人们一直认为关系冲突会导致、维持并影响无生理原因的性问题的治疗结果。冲突的结果会影响伴侣对关系的满意度,而关系满意度又会影响性满意度。一般的关系缺陷,如未解决的冲突,会破坏对健康性功能至关重要的相互接纳。本文的目的是总结一些关于关系中冲突模式及其在性功能障碍中作用的基本实证研究结果,并提出一个将关系冲突评估为性功能障碍特征的模型。几项研究的结果表明,与关系满意的伴侣相比,有性问题的伴侣可能存在冲突管理问题,并采用不同的冲突解决方式。功能失调的冲突解决可能是一些性问题的原因或结果,而关于冲突的建设性互动可以增加伴侣关系中的情感和性亲密感。这些模式在性治疗的评估和干预中值得系统关注。