Schneiderman G, Evans H
Adolescence. 1975 Winter;10(40):495-8.
Certain types of acting-out in the adolescent express the feelings of deprivation of the parental pair in a maladaptive aggressive way. Family therapists have attempted to convert the acting-out behavioral disorders into an effective state, i.e., make the family aware of their feelings of deprivation by focusing on the aggressive component. In many instances, the family becomes depressed and then interrupts or terminates treatment. The authors feel that this is due to the therapist's interpretations which bring about the depressive state via guilt provocation. The family understands the interpretations as meaning "You are bad to have your adolescent offspring behave in such a way". The therapist is thus seen as the family's collective super-ego. In order to prevent premature termination, the therapist should instead help the members of the family to become more conscious of their loving, "welfare" feelings for one another. In this way the self-esteem of the family is increased, which then permits more verbal action of aggressive feelings--thus a decrease in the acting-out, and ultimately an increase in the capacity to mourn. It should be pointed out, however, that in certain families, the technique described is not applicable. In these cases, although there is acting-out, the families are unable to draw on sufficient good experiences together which are necessary to elicit positive feeling for one another. The absence of readily available "welfare" feelings is of diagnostic and prognostic significance and differentiates the disorganized, sociopathic or schizophrenic family from the acting-out of parental deprivation as illustrated in this paper.
青少年的某些外显行为以一种适应不良的攻击方式表达了对父母双方缺失的感受。家庭治疗师试图将外显行为障碍转化为一种有效的状态,即通过关注攻击成分让家庭意识到他们缺失的感受。在许多情况下,家庭会变得沮丧,然后中断或终止治疗。作者认为这是由于治疗师的解释通过引发内疚感导致了抑郁状态。家庭将这些解释理解为“你们让青春期的孩子这样表现是不好的”。因此,治疗师被视为家庭的集体超我。为了防止过早终止治疗,治疗师反而应该帮助家庭成员更加意识到他们彼此之间爱的、“关心福利”的感受。这样家庭的自尊就会增强,进而允许对攻击感受有更多的言语表达——从而减少外显行为,并最终增强哀悼的能力。然而,应该指出的是,在某些家庭中,所描述的技术并不适用。在这些情况下,虽然存在外显行为,但家庭无法共同利用足够多的美好经历,而这些经历是引发彼此积极感受所必需的。缺乏现成的“关心福利”感受具有诊断和预后意义,它将混乱的、反社会的或精神分裂症家庭与本文所阐述的因父母缺失导致的外显行为区分开来。