Buss David M
Department of Psychology, University of Texas, Austin, TX 78712, USA.
Neuro Endocrinol Lett. 2002 Dec;23 Suppl 4:23-9.
Long-term committed mating is a fundamental strategy in the human repertoire. Successful enactment of this strategy requires solving two related adaptive problems--fending off potential mate poachers and preventing a mates from defecting. Mate guarding adaptations evolved to solve these persistent problems. Those who failed in mate guarding risked suffering substantial reproductive costs ranging from genetic cuckoldry to reputational damage to the entire loss of a mate. Because the precise nature of the adaptive problems confronted differed historically for the sexes, men and women evolved corresponding differences in the underlying psychology of mate guarding. Men's mate guarding, relative to that of women's, is strongly triggered as a consequence of being mated to young and physically attractive women, being confronted by interested rivals who have superior economic resources or prospects, and having a mate who displays signs of sexual involvement with a rival. Women's mate guarding, relative to that of men's, is triggered as a consequence of being mated to men high in income and status striving, rivals who are more physically attractive, and having a partner who shows signs of emotional involvement with another woman. Behavioral output of mate guarding adaptations range from vigilance to violence.
长期稳定的配偶关系是人类行为模式中的一项基本策略。成功实施这一策略需要解决两个相关的适应性问题——抵御潜在的配偶竞争者,并防止配偶背叛。配偶守卫适应性机制的进化就是为了解决这些长期存在的问题。那些在配偶守卫方面失败的人可能会遭受巨大的生殖成本,从基因层面的戴绿帽到声誉受损,甚至可能完全失去配偶。由于历史上男女面临的适应性问题的具体性质有所不同,男性和女性在配偶守卫的潜在心理方面也进化出了相应的差异。相对于女性而言,男性的配偶守卫行为在以下情况下会被强烈触发:配偶年轻且外貌出众、遇到经济资源或前景更优越的竞争对手、配偶表现出与竞争对手有性接触的迹象。相对于男性而言,女性的配偶守卫行为在以下情况下会被触发:配偶收入高且有地位追求、竞争对手外貌更出众、伴侣表现出与另一个女人有情感纠葛的迹象。配偶守卫适应性机制的行为表现从警惕到暴力不等。