Hay Dale F, Payne Alexandra, Chadwick Andrea
School of Psychology, Cardiff University, Wales.
J Child Psychol Psychiatry. 2004 Jan;45(1):84-108. doi: 10.1046/j.0021-9630.2003.00308.x.
We present a developmental model that describes normal peer relations and highlights processes that underlie the emergence of problems with peers in childhood. We propose that children's relationships with peers begin in the first years of life, with stable individual differences and preferences for particular peers emerging by three years of age. Social skills that facilitate peer relationships consolidate in the preschool years, during which time peer groups become structured with respect to friendship groups, gender, and dominance relations; some children begin to be rejected by their peers. In later childhood some children develop entrenched problems with peer relationships, in terms of loneliness, bullying and victimisation. Underlying cognitive and emotional processes that facilitate successful peer relationships at all ages are identified, and the extent to which peer relations play a causal role in the genesis of disorder is evaluated. A review of the evidence suggests that, rather than a simple pathway from problematic peer relations to disorder, there is a reciprocal relationship between children's problems with peers and their psychological problems from infancy to adolescence.
我们提出了一个发展模型,该模型描述了正常的同伴关系,并突出了童年时期同伴问题出现的潜在过程。我们认为,儿童与同伴的关系始于生命的最初几年,到三岁时会出现稳定的个体差异以及对特定同伴的偏好。促进同伴关系的社交技能在学前阶段得到巩固,在此期间,同伴群体在友谊群体、性别和主导关系方面形成结构;一些儿童开始被同伴拒绝。在童年后期,一些儿童在同伴关系方面出现根深蒂固的问题,如孤独、欺凌和受欺负。我们确定了在所有年龄段促进成功同伴关系的潜在认知和情感过程,并评估了同伴关系在障碍发生中所起的因果作用程度。对证据的回顾表明,儿童同伴问题与其心理问题之间并非从有问题的同伴关系到障碍的简单路径,而是从婴儿期到青春期存在着一种相互关系。