University Hospitals Leuven.
J Marital Fam Ther. 2014 Jul;40(3):391-401. doi: 10.1111/jmft.12004. Epub 2012 Nov 20.
Dealing with difference is central to all couple therapy. This article presents an intervention designed to assist couples in handling conflict. Central to this approach is the acceptance that most conflicts cannot be solved. Couples are in need of a different understanding of couples conflict. This understanding is found in the analysis of love in context and in relational dialectics. Couples are guided through different steps: deciding on the valence of the issue as individuals, helping them decide which differences can be resolved and which issues demand new ways of living with the inevitable, and the introduction in the suggested no conclusion dialogue. This article briefly describes the five day intensive couple therapy program, in which the no intervention is embedded. The theoretical foundation of the intervention, followed by the step by step description of the intervention forms the major part of the article. A case vignette illustrates this approach.
处理差异是所有夫妻治疗的核心。本文提出了一种干预措施，旨在帮助夫妻处理冲突。这种方法的核心是接受大多数冲突无法解决的事实。夫妻需要对夫妻冲突有不同的理解。这种理解可以在情境中的爱的分析和关系辩证法中找到。夫妻可以通过不同的步骤来指导：个人决定问题的价值，帮助他们决定哪些差异可以解决，哪些问题需要新的方式来处理不可避免的情况，并引入建议的无结论对话。本文简要描述了为期五天的夫妻密集治疗计划，其中嵌入了不干预措施。干预的理论基础，以及干预形式的逐步描述构成了本文的主要部分。一个案例片段说明了这种方法。
