Putnick Diane L, Bornstein Marc H, Lansford Jennifer E, Malone Patrick S, Pastorelli Concetta, Skinner Ann T, Sorbring Emma, Tapanya Sombat, Uribe Tirado Liliana Maria, Zelli Arnaldo, Alampay Liane Peña, Al-Hassan Suha M, Bacchini Dario, Bombi Anna Silvia, Chang Lei, Deater-Deckard Kirby, Di Giunta Laura, Dodge Kenneth A, Oburu Paul
Child and Family Research, Eunice Kennedy Shriver National Institute of Child Health and Human Development, Bethesda, MD, USA.
Center for Child and Family Policy, Duke University, Durham, NC, USA.
J Child Psychol Psychiatry. 2015 Aug;56(8):923-32. doi: 10.1111/jcpp.12366. Epub 2014 Dec 10.
It is generally believed that parental rejection of children leads to child maladaptation. However, the specific effects of perceived parental acceptance-rejection on diverse domains of child adjustment and development have been incompletely documented, and whether these effects hold across diverse populations and for mothers and fathers are still open questions.
This study assessed children's perceptions of mother and father acceptance-rejection in 1,247 families from China, Colombia, Italy, Jordan, Kenya, the Philippines, Sweden, Thailand, and the United States as antecedent predictors of later internalizing and externalizing behavior problems, school performance, prosocial behavior, and social competence.
Higher perceived parental rejection predicted increases in internalizing and externalizing behavior problems and decreases in school performance and prosocial behavior across 3 years controlling for within-wave relations, stability across waves, and parental age, education, and social desirability bias. Patterns of relations were similar across mothers and fathers and, with a few exceptions, all nine countries.
Children's perceptions of maternal and paternal acceptance-rejection have small but nearly universal effects on multiple aspects of their adjustment and development regardless of the family's country of origin.
人们普遍认为父母对孩子的拒绝会导致孩子适应不良。然而,父母接纳-拒绝的感知对孩子适应和发展的不同领域的具体影响尚未得到充分记录,而且这些影响是否适用于不同人群以及父母双方仍是悬而未决的问题。
本研究评估了来自中国、哥伦比亚、意大利、约旦、肯尼亚、菲律宾、瑞典、泰国和美国的1247个家庭中孩子对父母接纳-拒绝的感知,将其作为后期内化和外化行为问题、学业成绩、亲社会行为和社交能力的先行预测因素。
在控制了波内关系、跨波稳定性以及父母年龄、教育程度和社会期望偏差后,较高的父母拒绝感知预测了3年内内化和外化行为问题的增加以及学业成绩和亲社会行为的下降。父母之间以及除少数例外的所有九个国家的关系模式相似。
无论家庭的原籍国是哪里,孩子对父母接纳-拒绝的感知对其适应和发展的多个方面都有微小但几乎普遍的影响。