Osofsky Joy D, Chartrand Molinda M
Future Child. 2013 Fall;23(2):61-77. doi: 10.1353/foc.2013.0011.
Because most research on military families has focused on children who are old enough to go to school, we know the least about the youngest and perhaps most vulnerable children in these families. Some of what we do know, however, is worrisome--for example, multiple deployments, which many families have experienced during the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, may increase the risk that young children will be maltreated. Where the research on young military children is thin, Joy Osofsky and Lieutenant Colonel Molinda Chartrand extrapolate from theories and research in other contexts--especially attachment theory and research on families who have experienced disasters. They describe the circumstances that are most likely to put young children in military families at risk, and they point to ways that families, communities, the military, and policy makers can help these children overcome such risks and thrive. They also review a number of promising programs to build resilience in young military children. Deployment, Osofsky and Chartrand write, is particularly stressful for the youngest children, who depend on their parents for nearly everything. Not only does deployment separate young children from one of the central figures in their lives, it can also take a psychological toll on the parent who remains at home, potentially weakening the parenting relationship. Thus one fundamental way to help young military children become resilient is to help their parents cope with the stress of deployment. Parents and caregivers themselves, Osofsky and Chartrand write, can be taught ways to support their young children's resilience during deployment, for example, by keeping routines consistent and predictable and by finding innovative ways to help the child connect with the absent parent. The authors conclude by presenting 10 themes, grounded in research and theory, that can guide policies and programs designed to help young military children.
由于大多数针对军人家庭的研究都集中在已到上学年龄的孩子身上,我们对这些家庭中最小且可能最脆弱的孩子了解最少。然而,我们所了解到的一些情况令人担忧——例如,许多家庭在伊拉克和阿富汗战争期间经历的多次部署,可能会增加幼儿受虐待的风险。在对军人家庭幼儿的研究较为薄弱的情况下,乔伊·奥索夫斯基和莫琳达·查特兰德中校从其他背景下的理论和研究中进行推断——尤其是依恋理论以及对经历过灾难的家庭的研究。他们描述了最有可能使军人家庭中的幼儿面临风险的情况,并指出家庭、社区、军队和政策制定者可以帮助这些孩子克服此类风险并茁壮成长的方式。他们还回顾了一些旨在增强军人家庭幼儿适应力的有前景的项目。奥索夫斯基和查特兰德写道,部署对最小的孩子来说压力尤其大,因为他们几乎事事都依赖父母。部署不仅会使幼儿与他们生活中的核心人物之一分离,还可能给留守在家的父母带来心理负担,从而可能削弱亲子关系。因此,帮助军人家庭幼儿变得有适应力的一个基本方法是帮助他们的父母应对部署带来的压力。奥索夫斯基和查特兰德写道,父母和照顾者自己可以学习在部署期间支持幼儿适应力的方法,例如,保持日常生活的一致性和可预测性,以及找到创新的方法帮助孩子与不在身边的父母建立联系。作者最后提出了10个基于研究和理论的主题,可以指导旨在帮助军人家庭幼儿的政策和项目。