Matthiesen V
J Gerontol Nurs. 1989 Jul;15(7):11-5. doi: 10.3928/0098-9134-19890701-05.
In the US there is a persistent myth that adult children do not care for their aging, dependent parents. Also, nursing home placement of a parent is still perceived as a deviant and selfish act by adult children. Adult daughters experience a relationship loss with their mothers' nursing home placement and progressive deterioration. Daughters experience both recurring guilt and loss with grieving throughout their mothers' nursing home stay and believe that these emotional feelings will be relieved only by their mothers' deaths. An implication of this study is the need for nurses to facilitate successful psychosocial interventions with daughters' loss and grief experienced during their role in the transition process with their mothers from home to nursing home.
在美国,一直存在着一种误解,即成年子女不照顾年迈、需要照料的父母。此外,将父母安置在养老院仍被成年子女视为一种越轨和自私的行为。成年女儿会因母亲被安置在养老院以及母亲病情逐渐恶化而经历关系的丧失。在母亲住在养老院的整个期间,女儿们会反复感到内疚和悲痛,并且认为只有母亲去世这些情感才会减轻。这项研究的一个启示是,护士需要推动对女儿们在从家庭到养老院的过渡过程中所经历的失落和悲痛进行成功的心理社会干预。