Frick-Bruder V
Zentrum für Reproduktionsmedizin, Universitätskrankenhaus Hamburg Eppendorf.
Arch Gynecol Obstet. 1989;245(1-4):1050-2. doi: 10.1007/BF02417680.
Only if the couple can accept that both their wish to have a child and their infertility are deeply rooted in their relationship will they be prepared to undergo and tolerate the stresses and strains involved in fertility treatment without allowing it to govern their lives completely. If both sides - the doctor and the couple - refuse to admit that there are limits and cannot acknowledge their feelings of inadequacy and impotence, and the anger and sadness which are inevitably linked with these, the couple will have no chance to mourn and finally give up their desire for a child, if that becomes necessary.
只有当夫妻双方能够接受他们想要孩子的愿望以及他们的不孕不育都深深植根于他们的关系中时，他们才会准备好去承受和容忍生育治疗过程中的压力和紧张，而不让其完全主宰自己的生活。如果医生和夫妻双方都拒绝承认存在局限，无法承认他们的不足感和无力感，以及与之不可避免地联系在一起的愤怒和悲伤，那么如果有必要，这对夫妻将没有机会哀悼并最终放弃要孩子的愿望。
