School of Psychology, The University of Sydney, Australia.
J Adolesc. 2019 Jun;73:26-35. doi: 10.1016/j.adolescence.2019.03.004. Epub 2019 Apr 4.
Parental behavioural control is believed to be beneficial for young children. However, with increased need for independence during adolescence, parental rules may undermine self-beliefs.
The current study examined the effect of behavioural control, plus parental support and psychological control, on the self-esteem and self-criticism of 243 Australian adolescents (mean age = 12.08, 52% female) over two years.
Behavioural control largely did not predict self-esteem. Furthermore, in girls it predicted higher self-criticism 12 and 24 months later. Behavioural control does not appear to benefit adolescents' self-cognitions and, in fact, increases self-criticism in girls.
By providing copious rules around appropriate behaviours, parents may possibly indicate to girls that they are not capable of becoming independent, thus reducing feelings of competence.
父母的行为控制被认为对幼儿有益。然而,随着青少年时期对独立性的需求增加,父母的规定可能会破坏他们的自信。
本研究在两年的时间里,调查了行为控制(外加父母的支持和心理控制)对 243 名澳大利亚青少年(平均年龄为 12.08 岁,52%为女性)的自尊和自我批评的影响。
行为控制在很大程度上并未预测自尊。此外,它还预示着女孩在 12 个月和 24 个月后会有更高的自我批评。行为控制似乎对青少年的自我认知没有好处,实际上,它会增加女孩的自我批评。
父母通过提供大量关于适当行为的规则,可能会向女孩表明她们没有能力独立,从而降低她们的能力感。