Department of Psychological and Brain Sciences, The University of Iowa, Iowa City, IA, US.
Department of Psychology, Lehigh University, Bethlehem, PA, US.
Attach Hum Dev. 2023 Oct;25(5):461-486. doi: 10.1080/14616734.2023.2262979. Epub 2023 Nov 7.
Although there is a consensus that harsh, hostile, abusive discipline has uniformly adverse effects on children, scholars continue to debate implications of varying degrees of power assertion commonly used by most parents in daily interactions with young children. Attachment theory can inform this debate, as early attachment organization can serve as a catalyst, or moderator, of future socialization trajectories. Specifically, insecure attachment can amplify, whereas secure attachment can attenuate, detrimental effects of parental power-assertive control. In two community studies of mothers, fathers, and infants, Family Study (FS, = 102), and Children and Parents Study (CAPS, = 200), we assessed attachment security in infancy, parental power-assertive control at 4.5 years in FS and at 16 months in CAPS, and child positive orientation to the parent at 10 years in FS and at 3 years in CAPS. In both studies, fathers' power-assertive control undermined children's positive orientation toward the fathers, but only for children with less secure attachment histories in infancy (Attachment Q-Set in FS and Strange Situation Paradigm in CAPS), and not for those with more secure histories. The findings highlight indirect yet powerful, long-term effects of the early parent-child security, and suggest distinct processes in mother- and father-child dyads.
尽管人们普遍认为严厉、敌对、虐待性的纪律对儿童有一致的不良影响,但学者们仍在争论大多数父母在与幼儿日常互动中普遍使用的不同程度的权力主张的含义。依恋理论可以为这场争论提供信息,因为早期的依恋组织可以作为未来社会化轨迹的催化剂或调节者。具体来说,不安全的依恋可以放大,而安全的依恋可以减轻父母权力主张控制的不利影响。在两项针对母亲、父亲和婴儿的社区研究中,家庭研究(FS,=102)和儿童与父母研究(CAPS,=200)中,我们评估了婴儿期的依恋安全性、FS 中 4.5 岁时的父母权力主张控制以及 CAPS 中 16 个月时的权力主张控制,以及 FS 中 10 岁时和 CAPS 中 3 岁时儿童对父母的积极取向。在这两项研究中,父亲的权力主张控制破坏了儿童对父亲的积极取向,但仅适用于婴儿期依恋史不太安全的儿童(FS 中的依恋 Q-集和 CAPS 中的陌生情境范式),而不是那些依恋史更安全的儿童。这些发现强调了早期亲子安全性的间接但强大的长期影响,并表明了母子和父子关系中存在不同的过程。