Yousefali Parastou, Zarani Fariba, Boelen Paul A, Zabihzadeh Abbas, Panaghi Leili, Ghorkhanehchi Rasoul
Department of Psychology, Faculty of Educational Sciences and Psychology, Shahid Beheshti University, Tehran, Iran.
Department of Clinical Psychology, Faculty of Social and Behavioral Sciences, Utrecht University, Utrecht, the Netherlands.
Death Stud. 2024 Sep 5:1-14. doi: 10.1080/07481187.2024.2400370.
This study explores the experiences of Iranian bereaved spouses who lost partners in Road Traffic Collisions (RTCs) one to three years earlier. Seventeen participants were interviewed using purposive sampling. Three central themes emerged: (1) "The unfillable void," revealing the profound emptiness experienced by the bereaved, the factors that maintain this void, and the challenges in accepting human-induced deaths as fate. This leads to difficulties in finding meaning in the loss, resulting in anger and seeking revenge; (2) "The Iranian mourning," exploring cultural impacts such as Chehelom, alongside confronting loneliness that ensues after this period ends, and the cultural stigma faced by the bereaved; (3) "One's perspective on life," highlighting personal growth amid adversity. The study emphasizes the necessity for culturally sensitive support services and suggests psychological therapies addressing feelings of retaliation and fury. These insights offer valuable contributions to understanding bereavement in diverse cultural contexts, informing legislators and healthcare professionals.
本研究探讨了在一至三年前因道路交通事故(RTCs)失去伴侣的伊朗丧偶配偶的经历。采用目的抽样法对17名参与者进行了访谈。出现了三个核心主题:(1)“无法填补的空白”,揭示了丧亲者所经历的深刻空虚、维持这种空虚的因素,以及将人为导致的死亡视为命运所面临的挑战。这导致在寻找损失的意义方面存在困难,进而引发愤怒并寻求报复;(2)“伊朗式哀悼”,探讨了诸如Chehelom等文化影响,以及在此阶段结束后所面临的孤独感,还有丧亲者所面临的文化耻辱;(3)“个人的人生观”,强调了在逆境中实现的个人成长。该研究强调了提供具有文化敏感性的支持服务的必要性,并建议采用心理疗法来解决报复和愤怒情绪。这些见解为理解不同文化背景下的丧亲之痛提供了宝贵的贡献,为立法者和医疗保健专业人员提供了参考。