Medolla Martina, Ferrara Anna, Senese Vincenzo Paolo
Department of Psychology, University of Campania "Luigi Vanvitelli", Caserta, Italy.
Universidad Nacional de Educacion a Distancia (UNED), Madrid, Spain.
Int J Psychol. 2025 Oct;60(5):e70103. doi: 10.1002/ijop.70103.
The objective of the present study was to examine the initial stages of partner selection in adulthood and assess the link between childhood interpersonal experiences with parents and the inclination toward intimacy with a potential partner. To achieve this goal, we devised an experimental paradigm to explore the initial mechanisms that guide interest toward one potential partner over another. Subsequently, we conducted a study involving a cohort of young adults (N = 200; aged 18-31) who were single, aiming to investigate their inclination toward intimacy with partners characterised by different internal working models (IWMs) and to assess the correlation with the quality of parent-child relationships during childhood. Additionally, aligning with existing literature and recognising the importance of exploring the moderating effect of sex on these processes, our study included both male and female participants matched by age. The results revealed, for the first time, that the initial propensity for intimacy with a partner is influenced by the interaction of multiple factors, including the partner's internal working model, the individual's internal working model, and their biological sex. The theoretical implications of these findings were discussed.
本研究的目的是考察成年期伴侣选择的初始阶段,并评估童年时期与父母的人际经历与对潜在伴侣亲密倾向之间的联系。为实现这一目标,我们设计了一种实验范式,以探索引导对一个潜在伴侣而非另一个潜在伴侣产生兴趣的初始机制。随后,我们对一组单身的年轻成年人(N = 200;年龄在18 - 31岁之间)进行了一项研究,旨在调查他们对具有不同内部工作模型(IWMs)的伴侣的亲密倾向,并评估与童年时期亲子关系质量的相关性。此外,与现有文献一致,并认识到探索性别对这些过程的调节作用的重要性,我们的研究纳入了年龄匹配的男性和女性参与者。结果首次表明,与伴侣亲密的初始倾向受到多种因素的相互作用影响,包括伴侣的内部工作模型、个体的内部工作模型以及他们的生理性别。讨论了这些发现的理论意义。