Stoller R J
J Am Psychoanal Assoc. 1978;26(3):541-58. doi: 10.1177/000306517802600304.
Although it is not yet clear what boyhood behaviors indicate an adult homosexual outcome, femininity is one reliable marker. The earlier and greater the femininity, the more likely will it be resistant to treatment, in childhood or adult life. Once an evaluation has revealed the femininity is intense, treatment should quickly begin and, when possible, include both mother and father. If the boy is to become more masculine, his mother will have to allow--encourage--him finally to separate from her, and his father will have to start serving as an adequate model for masculinity.
虽然目前尚不清楚童年时期的哪些行为预示着成年后会有同性恋倾向,但女性化是一个可靠的标志。女性化出现得越早、程度越高,那么在童年或成年后就越有可能难以矫治。一旦评估显示女性化倾向强烈,就应迅速开始治疗,如有可能,父母双方都应参与。如果要让男孩更具男子气概,他的母亲必须允许——鼓励——他最终与自己分离,而他的父亲则必须开始成为一个足够合格的男子气概典范。