Friedman H J
Am J Psychiatry. 1980 Oct;137(10):1177-82. doi: 10.1176/ajp.137.10.1177.
The author discusses the father-child relationship as it is influenced by divorce. Psychiatrists are often consulted by individuals considering dovorce who are concerned about its probable impact on their children. Data gathered from the treatment of fathers during divorce indicate that there can be positive changes in their parental bonds as a result of increased opportunities to relate to children in a conflict-free atmosphere. In such a setting, the father's nurturing experience provides him with a new perspective on parenting. Psychotherapeutic help can lead to a strengthening of parental bonds, with subsequent benefits to both father and child. The author encourages professionals to support men in improving their fathering during the postdivorce period.
作者探讨了离婚对父子关系的影响。考虑离婚的人若担心这可能对孩子产生的影响,常常会咨询精神科医生。从离婚期间对父亲的治疗中收集的数据表明,由于有更多机会在无冲突的氛围中与孩子相处,他们的亲子关系可能会有积极变化。在这样的环境中,父亲的养育经历会让他对养育孩子有新的认识。心理治疗帮助可以加强亲子关系,进而使父亲和孩子都受益。作者鼓励专业人士支持男性在离婚后改善其为人父的角色。