Kaffman M
Kibbutz Child and Family Clinic, Tel Aviv, Israel.
Fam Process. 1993 Mar;32(1):117-33. doi: 10.1111/j.1545-5300.1993.00117.x.
The kibbutz in Israel constitutes one of the few places in Western culture where one is able to examine the essence of an "authentic emotional divorce" because of the minor role of factors that are extraneous to the disruption of the emotional marital attachment itself. This is the case because the kibbutz is a society that is based and functions upon principles that neutralize to a large extent the legal, economic, and co-parenting obstacles to a constructive divorce. Although there are significant differences in the severity of the postdivorce conflict, the divorce crisis is rather similar in kibbutz and non-kibbutz settings regarding both the quality of the emotional responses and the nature of the influencing factors--thus pointing to the ubiquitousness of the human condition.
以色列的基布兹是西方文化中少数几个能让人探究“真正情感离婚”本质的地方之一,因为在破坏婚姻情感依恋本身的因素中,外部因素所起的作用较小。之所以如此,是因为基布兹社会所基于并依其运作的原则在很大程度上消除了对建设性离婚的法律、经济和共同育儿障碍。尽管离婚后冲突的严重程度存在显著差异,但在情感反应质量和影响因素性质方面,基布兹和非基布兹环境中的离婚危机颇为相似——这表明人类状况具有普遍性。