Kreppner K
Max-Planck-Institut für Bildungsforschung, Berlin.
Prax Kinderpsychol Kinderpsychiatr. 1996 Mar-Apr;45(3-4):130-47.
Formats of communication within families are believed to be relevant contexts for children's development. Cultural values, norms, and interpretation patterns are transferred from parents to children within the family's specific communication framework. By the same token, skills to maintain the balance of living together or to realize one's own wishes are acquired within the scope of extant formats of exchange among family members. Puberty is a period, where a child strives for more autonomy and tends to dispute present parent-child relationships. The focus of the study is on links between formats of communication within the family and adolescents' estimations of the relationships with their parents and also adolescents' judgments about their self-esteem. 67 families with an adolescent child (between 11 and 12 years old at the beginning of data collection) participated in a longitudinal study, in which adolescents judged the quality of their relationship with parents as well as their self-esteem every six months over a period of three and a half years (8 waves). In addition, concrete communication behavior between parents and adolescents was observed and recorded during the first, fourth, sixth, and eight wave of data collection. Results point to considerable differences among adolescents' judgments concerning their quality of relationship with the parents and their self-esteem. Groups could be formed according to these differences. Data also show that adolescents show a high degree of constancy in their estimations over time. However, communication behaviors in parent-adolescent dyads showed divergent patterns of communication across the different groups on the one hand, and different degrees of variation of communication formats within groups over time on the other, dependent on whether adolescents belonged to the group of high quality relationship and self-esteem (considerable variation over time) or to the group of low quality relationship and self-esteem (less variation over time). Results are discussed under the perspective of adolescents' different experiences in family communication, and implications of possible links between development of self-esteem and adaptive or nonadaptive variations in family communication are considered.
家庭内部的沟通形式被认为是儿童发展的相关背景。文化价值观、规范和解释模式在家庭特定的沟通框架内从父母传递给孩子。同样,在家庭成员现有的交流形式范围内,人们获得了维持共同生活平衡或实现个人愿望的技能。青春期是一个孩子追求更多自主权并倾向于质疑当前亲子关系的时期。该研究的重点是家庭内部沟通形式与青少年对与父母关系的评估之间的联系,以及青少年对自尊的判断。67个有青少年子女的家庭(在数据收集开始时年龄在11至12岁之间)参与了一项纵向研究,在三年半的时间里(8次调查),青少年每六个月对他们与父母关系的质量以及他们的自尊进行一次评估。此外,在数据收集的第一、第四、第六和第八轮中,观察并记录了父母与青少年之间的具体沟通行为。结果表明,青少年在对与父母关系质量和自尊的判断上存在相当大的差异。可以根据这些差异形成不同的群体。数据还表明,随着时间的推移,青少年的评估具有高度的稳定性。然而,亲子二元组中的沟通行为一方面在不同群体之间呈现出不同的沟通模式,另一方面,随着时间的推移,群体内部沟通形式的变化程度也有所不同,这取决于青少年是属于高质量关系和自尊的群体(随着时间有相当大的变化)还是属于低质量关系和自尊的群体(随着时间变化较小)。研究结果从青少年在家庭沟通中的不同经历角度进行了讨论,并考虑了自尊发展与家庭沟通中适应性或非适应性变化之间可能联系的影响。