Kelly Adrian B, Halford W Kim, Young Ross M
School of Applied Psychology, Griffith University, Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia.
Psychol Addict Behav. 2002 Sep;16(3):269-71.
Couples with alcohol and relationship problems often report poor communication, yet little is known about the communication of maritally distressed couples in which the woman abuses alcohol (MDWA couples). Compared with maritally distressed couples without alcohol problems (MDNA) and couples with neither problem (NDNA), MDWA couples showed a distinctive pattern of negative communication. Similar to MDNA men, MDWA men spoke negatively to their partners but listened positively to their partners much like NDNA men. MDWA women listened negatively, much as MDNA women did, but spoke positively, like NDNA women did. The interactions of MDWA couples can be characterized as a male-demand-female-withdraw pattern, which is a gender reversal of the female-demand-male-withdraw pattern often observed in MDNA couples.
有酗酒和关系问题的夫妻经常报告沟通不畅,但对于女性酗酒的婚姻困扰夫妻(MDWA夫妻)的沟通情况却知之甚少。与没有酗酒问题的婚姻困扰夫妻(MDNA)和没有任何问题的夫妻(NDNA)相比,MDWA夫妻表现出一种独特的负面沟通模式。与MDNA男性类似,MDWA男性对伴侣说话消极,但像NDNA男性一样积极倾听伴侣说话。MDWA女性消极倾听,很像MDNA女性,但说话积极,就像NDNA女性一样。MDWA夫妻的互动可以被描述为男性要求-女性退缩模式,这与MDNA夫妻中经常观察到的女性要求-男性退缩模式在性别上相反。