Ferrio M A
Ospedale San Sebastiano, Frascati, Rome, Italy.
Ann Ist Super Sanita. 1992;28(2):291-3.
The couple is observed within a large network in which the wider family, friends, work and society are included. These individuals find a great difficulty in establishing well-grounded and authentic interpersonal relationships swinging between the desire of omnipotent self-sufficiency and the contrasted and suffered need for dependence. The third one, the child absent in their real existence, seems to be excluded also from relational possibilities. The quality of the couple relationship, the acceptance of treatments and of their possible failures is determined anyway by the balance and the harmony which existed before the stressing event (diagnosis). Very often, the failure of various therapeutic treatments is caused by a preexisting disagreement within those couples, who believed to solve their problems with a pregnancy.
这对夫妻处于一个庞大的社交网络中，其中包括更广泛的家庭成员、朋友、工作伙伴和社会关系。这些人在建立有充分依据且真实的人际关系时困难重重，他们在全能自给自足的欲望与与之形成对比且痛苦的依赖需求之间摇摆不定。而第三个因素，即他们现实生活中缺失的孩子，似乎也被排除在关系可能性之外。然而，夫妻关系的质量、对治疗及其可能失败的接受程度，是由压力事件（诊断）发生之前存在的平衡与和谐所决定的。很多时候，各种治疗方法的失败是由这些夫妻之前就存在的分歧导致的，他们原本认为怀孕就能解决问题。
