Wuest Judith, Malcolm Jean, Merritt-Gray Marilyn
Department of Graduate Studies, University of New Brunswick, Fredericton, New Brunswick, Canada.
Health Care Women Int. 2010 Dec;31(12):1047-67. doi: 10.1080/07399331003599563.
Using theoretical sampling, we extended a previous grounded theory study of women's caring through interviews with 16 women currently giving care to parents who had abused them as children to more fully understand daughters' obligation to care in the context of past abuse. Past relationship was characterized by emotional distance, "never being good enough," degradation, control, and unpredictability. Obligation to care was grounded not only in duty to others but also in duty to self. Caregiving was seen as an opportunity for validation and reconciliation. These findings advance knowledge by illuminating how survivors of child maltreatment become caregivers for their abusers.
通过理论抽样,我们扩展了之前一项关于女性关怀的扎根理论研究。该研究通过对16名目前正在照顾曾在她们童年时期虐待过她们的父母的女性进行访谈,以更全面地理解在过去虐待的背景下女儿们的照顾义务。过去的关系以情感距离、“永远不够好”、贬低、控制和不可预测性为特征。照顾义务不仅基于对他人的责任,也基于对自己的责任。照顾被视为获得认可与和解的机会。这些发现通过阐明受虐儿童的幸存者如何成为虐待者的照顾者,推进了相关知识。