Thomas Jennifer J
Wilkes University, Department of Psychology, 84 West South Street, Wilkes-Barre, PA 18766, USA.
J Genet Psychol. 2012 Apr-Jun;173(2):198-207. doi: 10.1080/00221325.2011.583698.
Although researchers have investigated how adolescents' friendships affect their romantic relationships, the influence of romantic relationships on friendships is unexamined. As a first step, 9th- (n = 198) and 11th grade students (n = 152) reported on their conceptions of friendship when one friend had a romantic relationship and when neither friend had a romantic relationship. As predicted, adolescents believed friendships in which a friend was dating would be characterized by less positive features and more negative features than friendships in which neither friend was dating. Additionally, older adolescents thought romantic relationships were more damaging to companionship and corumination than did younger adolescents. The closer nature of older adolescents' romantic relationships may result in lower quality friendships or older adolescents may be more aware of the potential negative consequences of romantic relationships for friendships. Girls viewed friendships as higher in conflict-rivalry and lower in corumination when one friend was dating while boys did not. And although girls and boys viewed friendships as lower in intimacy and companionship when a friend has a romantic partner, the difference was greater for girls than boys. Girls may be more sensitive to the effects of a friend's romantic relationship on their friendship than are boys. Findings necessitate theories of close relationships that incorporate age and gender as important variables.
尽管研究人员已经探究了青少年的友谊如何影响他们的恋爱关系,但恋爱关系对友谊的影响却尚未得到研究。作为第一步,九年级(n = 198)和十一年级学生(n = 152)报告了在一位朋友恋爱以及两位朋友都未恋爱时他们对友谊的看法。正如所预测的那样,青少年认为,与两位朋友都未恋爱的友谊相比,有一位朋友在恋爱的友谊具有更少的积极特征和更多的消极特征。此外,年龄较大的青少年比年龄较小的青少年认为恋爱关系对陪伴和共同思考的破坏更大。年龄较大的青少年恋爱关系的亲密性质可能导致友谊质量较低,或者年龄较大的青少年可能更清楚恋爱关系对友谊的潜在负面影响。当一位朋友恋爱时,女孩认为友谊中的冲突竞争更高,共同思考更低,而男孩则不然。尽管当一个朋友有恋爱伴侣时,女孩和男孩都认为友谊的亲密感和陪伴感较低,但女孩的差异比男孩更大。女孩可能比男孩对朋友的恋爱关系对她们友谊的影响更敏感。研究结果需要将年龄和性别作为重要变量纳入其中的亲密关系理论。