Smith Daniel Jordan
Brown University.
Anthropol Q. 2010 Winter;83(1). doi: 10.1353/anq.0.0118.
The transition from premarital sexual relationships and courtship to marriage and parenthood in southeastern Nigeria involves particularly dramatic adjustments for young women who have absorbed changing ideas about sexuality, marriage, and gender equality, and who have had active premarital sexual lives. In the eyes of society, these women must transform from being promiscuous girls to good wives. This paper examines these adjustments and, specifically, how young married women's lives are affected by the reality of male infidelity and a persistent gendered double standard regarding the acceptability of extramarital sex.
在尼日利亚东南部,从婚前性关系和求爱到婚姻及为人父母的转变,对于那些接受了有关性、婚姻和性别平等的不断变化的观念且有着活跃婚前性生活的年轻女性来说,涉及到尤为巨大的调整。在社会眼中,这些女性必须从行为不检点的女孩转变为好妻子。本文审视了这些调整,具体而言,探讨了年轻已婚女性的生活如何受到男性不忠这一现实以及关于婚外性行为可接受性的持续存在的性别双重标准的影响。