Department of Psychology & Center for Children and Families, Florida International University, 11200 S. W. 8th Street, Miami, FL, 33199, USA.
Pennsylvania State University Milton S. Hershey Medical Center, Hershey, PA, USA.
J Abnorm Child Psychol. 2019 Feb;47(2):299-312. doi: 10.1007/s10802-018-0444-4.
Although parents are significant sources of socialization in children's lives including with respect to their moral behavior, very little research has focused on how parents socialize children's honesty and dishonesty, especially parents of atypically developing children for whom lying is of substantial concern. We surveyed 49 parents of typically-developing (TD) children (M = 7.49, SD = 1.54) and 47 parents of children who had been diagnosed with a disruptive behavior disorder (DBD; M = 7.64, SD = 1.39) regarding their beliefs and attitudes about honesty and dishonesty, including in response to hypothetical vignettes; their messages to their children about honesty and dishonesty (e.g., punishment); and their own lying behavior and perceptions of their child's lying behavior. Results revealed that, in comparison to parents of TD children, parents of children with DBD reported (a) more punitive reactions to children's lying behavior, including in response to the hypothetical vignettes, (b) less encouragement of dishonesty among their children, and (3) perceiving their children as more prolific and sophisticated liars. Findings shed light on potential sources of individual differences in children's lie telling and may have implications for interventions for children with DBD and their parents.
尽管父母是孩子生活中重要的社会化来源,包括他们的道德行为,但很少有研究关注父母如何教育孩子的诚实和不诚实,尤其是对于那些发展异常的孩子的父母,因为对这些孩子来说,撒谎是一个严重的问题。我们调查了 49 名发育正常(TD)儿童的父母(M=7.49,SD=1.54)和 47 名被诊断为行为障碍障碍(DBD)儿童的父母,了解他们对诚实和不诚实的信念和态度,包括对假设情景的反应;他们给孩子的关于诚实和不诚实的信息(例如,惩罚);以及他们自己的撒谎行为和对孩子撒谎行为的看法。结果表明,与发育正常的孩子的父母相比,患有 DBD 的孩子的父母报告说:(a)对孩子的撒谎行为有更严厉的反应,包括对假设情景的反应;(b)对孩子的不诚实行为的鼓励减少;(3)认为自己的孩子更善于撒谎。这些发现揭示了孩子说谎行为中个体差异的潜在来源,可能对 DBD 儿童及其父母的干预措施具有重要意义。