Peebles Mary J
a Private Practice , Bethesda , Maryland , USA.
Am J Clin Hypn. 2020 Jul-Oct;62(1-2):138-158. doi: 10.1080/00029157.2019.1604312.
It is unquestioned that reaching the hypnotic state is helped along by relational factors and that, conversely, relational experiences can be deepened through hypnosis. It is also true that deepening the experience of being in a relationship with another person is neither comfortable nor indicated for every patient or therapist. Most humans feel ambivalent about closeness. People vary in their desire for and their skill in sustaining mature intimacy. When we move along the continuum from rudimentary notions about relational factors in psychotherapy, such as rapport, to complex concepts, such as enactments, we move along a corresponding continuum of increasing need for specialized training, supervised experience, and personal therapy. The field of psychotherapy has been plagued from its inception by not knowing what to do with the tensions that emerge when two people listen to and look at each other. Avoiding relational factors may be a very human response to a very daunting matter.
毫无疑问，达到催眠状态会受到关系因素的促进，反之，关系体验也可以通过催眠得到深化。同样，深化与他人建立关系的体验，对每个患者或治疗师来说既不舒适也不必要。大多数人对亲密关系都感到矛盾。人们在维持成熟亲密关系的渴望和技能方面存在差异。当我们从心理治疗中关系因素的基本概念（如融洽关系），发展到复杂概念（如互动表现）时，我们对专业培训、督导经验和个人治疗的需求也相应增加。心理治疗领域从一开始就受到困扰，不知道如何处理两人相互倾听和对视时出现的紧张关系。回避关系因素可能是人类对这一非常棘手问题的常见反应。
