van Roeyen Inge, Riem Madelon M E, Toncic Marko, Vingerhoets Ad J J M
Center of Research on Psychological and Somatic Disorders, Department of Medical and Clinical Psychology, Tilburg University, Tilburg, Netherlands.
Clinical Child and Family Studies, VU University Amsterdam, Amsterdam, Netherlands.
Front Psychol. 2020 Feb 18;11:172. doi: 10.3389/fpsyg.2020.00172. eCollection 2020.
Emotional tears are uniquely human and play an essential role in the communication of distress in adults. Several studies have shown that individuals are more willing to offer emotional support and help a person in tears. Preliminary evidence suggests that this greater willingness to provide support is mediated via perceived warmth and helplessness. Moreover, tearful individuals are regarded as more reliable and honest. In the current study, we examined whether people can reliably distinguish genuine and fake crying, and what the consequences for the further evaluation of the crier are. A total of 202 participants (73 men, 129 women) were exposed to brief movie clips of genuine and fake crying adults and were asked to assess the criers. Results show that women were slightly better at identifying fake and genuine crying. How the crying was perceived subsequently seemed to have a strong influence on the further evaluation of the "crier." Criers qualified as pretenders were perceived as significantly more manipulative, less reliable, less warm, and less competent. Further, the respondents felt less connected with the perceived pretenders, who also were less welcomed as friends, colleagues, neighbors, and babysitter. They were additionally qualified as significantly less fit for "reliable" professions (judge, teacher, police officer, scientist, and physician). In contrast, the ratings of their fitness for "unreliable" professions (banker, CEO, journalist, real estate salesman, and politician) yielded a significant difference in only one video clip (and contrary to expectations). Our findings thus indicate that the subjective labeling of crying as fake is associated with a significantly less positive perception of the "crying" person, regardless of whether the crying is actually fake or genuine. The qualification of tears as crocodile tears thus seems to affect the crier's image strongly negatively.
情绪化的眼泪是人类独有的,在成年人表达痛苦方面起着至关重要的作用。多项研究表明,人们更愿意为哭泣的人提供情感支持并伸出援手。初步证据表明,这种更强的提供支持的意愿是通过感知到的温暖和无助来介导的。此外,哭泣的人被认为更可靠、更诚实。在本研究中,我们调查了人们是否能够可靠地区分真哭和假哭,以及这对进一步评估哭泣者会产生什么后果。共有202名参与者(73名男性,129名女性)观看了成年人真哭和假哭的简短电影片段,并被要求对哭泣者进行评估。结果显示,女性在辨别真假哭泣方面略胜一筹。随后对哭泣的感知方式似乎对“哭泣者”的进一步评估有很大影响。被判定为伪装者的哭泣者被认为更具操控性、更不可靠、更不温暖且能力更差。此外,受访者觉得与被认为是伪装者的人联系更少,他们作为朋友、同事、邻居和保姆也更不受欢迎。他们还被判定明显更不适合从事“可靠”职业(法官、教师、警察、科学家和医生)。相比之下,他们在“不可靠”职业(银行家、首席执行官、记者、房地产销售员和政治家)方面的适合度评级仅在一个视频片段中产生了显著差异(且与预期相反)。因此,我们的研究结果表明,将哭泣主观地标记为假哭与对“哭泣”者的明显负面看法相关联,无论哭泣实际上是假的还是真的。因此,将眼泪定性为鳄鱼的眼泪似乎会对哭泣者的形象产生强烈的负面影响。