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Am J Psychoanal. 2020 Dec;80(4):395-414. doi: 10.1057/s11231-020-09264-w.
As we know, Sándor Ferenczi compared the analytic and adoptive relationships as the psychoanalyst exercises a parental role to some extent. The author notes that a commonality between the adoptive relationship and the analytic one is that if the parental couple is burdened with painful counter-transferential experiences and feelings that have not been worked through, these can pose a danger for the strength of the newly developing parental relationship. In the analytic situation the analyst's position implies the risk of conflict with the parental internal objects resulting from the primary introjections, especially if the original environment was abusive or severely neglectful. Similarly, the adoptive family is often burdened with revengeful and competitive aggressiveness of their own introjected parental objects, having as a main task to keep unified the pre-adoptive autobiographical memories that were dissociated and interrupted. In such cases it is very important to give the adoptive parents help so as to cope with their difficult "countertransference," supporting them to reduce their sense of guilt and unsuitability to nurse their children, especially if the adoptive parents feel guilty because of their own infertility. In this paper the author describes two cases concerning both situations, emphasising the clinical risks and the evolutionary potentialities.
如我们所知，桑多尔·费伦齐（Sándor Ferenczi）将分析性关系和收养性关系比作分析师在某种程度上扮演了父母的角色。作者指出，收养关系和分析性关系的一个共同点是，如果父母双方承受着痛苦的反移情体验和未解决的感受，这些可能会对新发展的父母关系的力量构成危险。在分析情境中，分析师的立场意味着与源自原始内射的父母内部客体产生冲突的风险，特别是如果原始环境是虐待或严重忽视的。同样，收养家庭经常承受着自己内射的父母客体的报复性和竞争性攻击性，其主要任务是保持被分离和中断的预先收养自传记忆的统一。在这种情况下，给予收养父母帮助以应对他们的困难“反移情”非常重要，支持他们减少对养育孩子的内疚感和不适合感，特别是如果收养父母因为自己的不孕而感到内疚。在本文中，作者描述了两种情况，分别涉及这两种情况，强调了临床风险和进化潜力。
